Does your child struggle with following directions?
Do you have to repeat yourself multiple times before they follow through? If you answered yes to these questions then I’m sure you’ve lost your patience with your child once or twice!! Not only is it important for your child to listen and follow directions at home, but it is also one of the most critical parts to school readiness. The more your child is able to do this at home, the easier the transition will be to a structured school environment.
Keep reading for a few strategies you can try depending on where your child struggles with following directions:
Try giving warnings before it’s time to transition to a new activity. For example, “It’s almost time for dinner. You have five more minutes to play and then it’s time to clean up and get ready for dinner.” And set a timer so they know how long they have left to play before they need to clean up.
Make sure you are looking them in the eye when giving directions. Have them repeat them back to you so you know they understand what to do.
If it’s something that they do daily, you can make a picture chart of things they need to do. Take pictures of them doing each activity and make a little chart so they know what comes first, second, third, etc.
Give them choices so they feel like they have some control. “Do you want to brush your teeth first or get dressed first?”
Try chunking the directions into smaller parts. Only give one or two directions at a time so it is easier for them to follow through.
And last but not least, you need to hold your boundaries and be consistent in order for these tips to work!
Good luck :)
